MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS

This time I will tell you one of the characteristics of men and women based on books written by John Gray, PH.D.

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Men usually always want to solve their problems whithout help from others. If they are facing problems, they will try their best waybto solve it themselves. But most women, make the mistake by giving advice when their men are facing problems whitout being asked by their men. Actually, when men face the problem, they only need the spirit from their women. Because, the advice from their women whitout being asked is a part of the words that hurt the men, they feel they have been humbled.

While women are different from men. When facing a problem, they are always looking for a friend to share or to tell their problems. They do not need to solve problems directly, they only need the people who can listen to their problems until they run out. Well, the mistake that men usually do is to cut the story when the girl tells about their problems by offering a problem solution for her girl. Because for men, what is thought when there is a problem is the solution and how to solve the problem is more important. however, girls still only need friends to share and understand them.

The problems above, of course have or may often be experienced by some couples who do not understand the nature of each other.

Girls , when a man is trying to solve the problem and not ask for your rocks, then you better keep quiet or give him enthusiasm by convincing them that they can certainly solve the problem, always support whatever steps your men takes and trust him. It will make your men  more confident and feel appreciated.

And you boys, when your girl is confused about the problem, then you better listen to the problem carefully. Not giving a solution. Let the girl tell her whole heart first, and if she asks for a solution, then you will give a solution.

Maybe that way can make your relationship more enjoyable.

That’s all from me

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